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Online dating

Online dating apps and websites are a very popular way for people to meet each other. Studies suggest that more than 10 million people use online dating services in the UK, making it the single largest source of new relationships.

Dating websites and apps

Sexual predators use online dating sites and apps as a way to target new victims.

With the popularity of online dating, we have seen an increase in sexual assaults as a result of people meeting up after speaking on dating websites or apps. These assaults are usually at the victims' homes, as people are lulled into a false sense of security by sexual predators.

Some dating websites and apps allow users to create anonymous accounts, or allow users to delete their account without holding backup copies of that account, its interactions or conversations. Because of this, it is not always easy to identify offenders, even if victims' have evidence of the conversations they have had with the offender. 

These types of unmonitored sites or apps create a significant issue for us in terms of identifying offenders and being able to gather evidence. 

 

Online dating and personal safety

If you decide to meet up with someone you've spoken to online, be sure to tell a friend or family member:

  • the name of the person you're meeting
  • where and at what time you are meeting
  • what time you will arrive home.

We recommend agreeing to call your friend or family member during and after your meeting to reassure them that you are ok, or to alert them that you feel unsafe or uncomfortable. 

Visit our other pages for more advice on personal safety and sexual consent.

 

Ask for Angela

Many Cambridgeshire pub and bar venues now support the Ask for Angela campaign.

The campaign aims to keep people safe while dating in Cambridgeshire by promoting the simple code-word: ‘Angela’.

If you are on a date in a bar and are worried for your safety, you can discreetly ask for help by going to the bar and asking: ‘is Angela here?’.

This message then alerts bar staff to the situation, so they can phone for a taxi or offer a safe space for you to contact a family member or friend.

Ask for Angela was developed by Lincolnshire County Council and is being rolled out across the UK. It is supported by Cambridgeshire and Peterborough Domestic Abuse and Sexual Violence Partnership with local support from Community Safety Partnerships.

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